Welcome back to advice session. A series here on Anything Goes where you send in your current dilemmas or anything. And I mean anything you want advice on. And then I give you my unprofessional advice. And today's topic is one that we know and we love relationships. But more specifically, when it's time to move on from a relationship, which is an

incredibly challenging dilemma because it's really hard to think clearly in a relationship.

When you're in love or you think you're in love, it's really hard to think straight. At least

that's been my experience. Like, it's actually mortifying to me when I look back at all of my past relationships

how much shit I let slide. Because I was in love or I thought I was in love and I made excuses for them

and I had made up my mind that this was my soulmate and I wasn't going to give up. And so, you know,

I would almost turn a blind eye to stuff that they were doing that was terrible. Like,

it's so hard to honestly analyze a relationship when you're in it. It's so challenging.

But today I'm going to be giving advice on it, even though I can't say for sure it's something

that I won't do again.

But I'd like to believe that I'm a realist in relationships now.

Like I've gone into enough relationships being like, this is my soulmate.

They can do no wrong.

We're getting married.

I can't wait for our wedding. I'm going to wear a beautiful dress, long sleeve, but kind of off

the shoulder. It's going to have no sparkles because I don't like that stuff, but maybe a little

bit of lace. I'm going to have a super long veil. Maybe we'll get married in like Cape Cod or something

or maybe like maybe something local like California vibes like

I've done that enough and then because I've become so dedicated to the idea of like this is my

person that then I've made excuses for them throughout the entire relationship and then at the end

become mortified that I did that. I've done that enough times now in my life that I really

am crossing my fingers that it's not going to happen again. But I can't make any promises.

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