Is it time to let go? | Making the difficult decision to end a relationship

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Tony Robbins

Business, Education

4.3 • 6.9K Ratings

🗓️ 13 November 2018

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

How many times in your life have you set expectations for yourself? Perhaps you believed you would have achieved a number of goals by a certain time. Or maybe you expected that you'd be married by a certain age. Or that your relationship would last a lifetime. While it's admirable to set goals, and aspire to find love and connection, it's also dangerous to tie our happiness to our expectations. Because when reality doesn't meet our expectations, we often find ourselves lost, confused and in pain.

Welcome back to the Tony Robbins Podcast where we are continuing our breakthrough series - taking you to events like Date with Destiny, UPW and Business Mastery, where you'll have a front row seat to life-changing transformations.

And in this episode, you are going to hear Tony work with Dano. Dano has been with his partner for decades. They've built a family and a life together, but they are finding themselves at a crossroad. He's deeply in love, and struggling to let go, blaming himself for the relationship's trajectory.

Tony works with Dano to take a new perspective on his relationship, and to learn how to trade his expectations for appreciation. They delve into what it means to be truly masculine in this trying situation and why loving his partner ultimately means letting her go.

Transcript

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0:00.0	Have you ever wondered or asked yourself, what's the purpose in life?
0:06.5	Over six immersive days, a date with destiny, Tony Robbins can help you find that answer,
0:11.3	providing the tools to reshape your destiny and design the life of your dreams.
0:15.8	Date with destiny is Tony's favorite event, and it's the one you might have seen in
0:19.1	that Netflix documentary.
0:20.1	I am not your guru.
0:22.6	Here's what happens though over those six days.
0:25.4	You start out by gaining a deep understanding of what truly motivates you.
0:29.0	Then, you identify the triggers that create pain and pleasure in your life, and learn
0:33.4	the strategies to eliminate pain for good.
0:36.1	Finally, you'll learn how to ignite or reignite your passion to achieve your ultimate
0:41.0	vision of your life, career, finances, health, and relationships.
0:46.6	As Tony says, it is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.
0:50.8	This is your chance to make the ultimate breakthrough and to start living the life you desire
0:55.2	and deserve.
0:56.7	To learn more about date with destiny, visit www.toneyrobbins.com forward slash destiny.
1:11.2	How many times in your life have you set expectations for yourself?
1:15.2	Maybe you expected yourself to follow a certain career path?
1:18.1	Perhaps you believed you'd be married by a certain age, or that your relationship would
1:21.2	last a lifetime.
1:23.2	While it's admirable to set goals and aspire to find love and connection, it's also dangerous
1:27.4	to tire happiness to our expectations.
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