Are you with the right person? | Tony explains the importance of selecting your partner consciously
The Tony Robbins Channel
Tony Robbins
4.3 • 6.9K Ratings
🗓️ 30 October 2018
⏱️ 25 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Summary
One of the most important decisions you could ever make is the person you choose to spend the rest of your life with. Yet so many of us make this decision with blinders on - ignoring some of the most glaring red flags. And it is these red flags that often become very real issues in the relationship, and can lead you down a path of pain, suffering and heartbreak.
In this episode of the Real Breakthrough Series, we're going back to one of Tony's most intimate events, where he's working with participants on building extraordinary relationships. While it may not sound particularly romantic, Tony shows us why love and passion are not the only things that matter when choosing your partner. In fact, he explains just why we must make a concerted effort to choose our partners consciously. And he even offers up the three most critical questions that we must ask ourselves when we are considering this important decision.
Love is not enough. It's vital. And it's what life partnerships are built upon. But in the end, it's not enough. Because opposites may attract, but it's those with similarities that bond. And if you're looking to build a lifetime partnership - you must remember that the right person and the right connection are everything.
Transcript
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | Have you ever wondered or asked yourself, what's the purpose in life? |
| 0:06.5 | Over six immersive days, a date with destiny, Tony Robbins can help you find that answer, |
| 0:11.3 | providing the tools to reshape your destiny and design the life of your dreams. |
| 0:15.8 | Date with destiny is Tony's favorite event, and it's the one you might have seen in |
| 0:19.1 | that Netflix documentary. |
| 0:20.1 | I am not your guru. |
| 0:22.6 | Here's what happens though over those six days. |
| 0:25.4 | You start out by gaining a deep understanding of what truly motivates you. |
| 0:29.0 | Then, you identify the triggers that create pain and pleasure in your life, and learn |
| 0:33.4 | the strategies to eliminate pain for good. |
| 0:36.1 | Finally, you'll learn how to ignite or reignite your passion to achieve your ultimate |
| 0:41.0 | vision of your life, career, finances, health, and relationships. |
| 0:46.6 | As Tony says, it is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped. |
| 0:50.8 | This is your chance to make the ultimate breakthrough and to start living the life you desire |
| 0:55.2 | and deserve. |
| 0:56.2 | To learn more about date with destiny, visit www.toneyrobbins.com forward slash destiny. |
| 1:11.4 | One of the most important decisions you can ever make is the person you choose to spend |
| 1:14.8 | the rest of your life with. |
| 1:16.0 | Yet, so many of us make this decision with blinders on, ignoring some of the most glaring |
| 1:20.7 | red flags. |
| 1:22.2 | And it is these red flags that often become very real issues in the relationship, and |
| 1:26.4 | can lead you down a path of pain, suffering, and heartbreak. |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Tony Robbins, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Tony Robbins and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.