Is It Time to Ghost Your Old Life? Truth, Identity, and Your Next Era

Style Your Mind Podcast

Cara Alwill

Girlboss, Confidence, Selfimprovement, Positivethoughts, Education, Self-improvement, Personaldevelopment, Raiseyourvibration, Bosslady, Motivation, Girlpower, Lifecoach, Entrepreneurship, Empoweringwomen, Liveyourbestlife, Mindfulness, Selfhelp, Manifestation, Business, Inspiration, Inspiring

4.8 • 1.5K Ratings

🗓️ 9 August 2025

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

Sometimes the hardest person to be honest with is yourself.

In this episode, I’m sharing the story of how I went from a $5,600-a-month luxury Manhattan apartment and endless freedom…to packing up my life and moving to Florida to step into the love, family, and future I didn’t even know I wanted.

It’s about recognizing when the version of you you’ve been clinging to, no matter how glamorous, independent, or accomplished, has expired. It’s about ghosting the old life that no longer fits, and having the courage to step into the one that’s calling you.

We’ll talk about starting over, rewriting your story, and why telling yourself the truth will get you to your next era faster than anything else.

If you’ve been feeling the pull toward something different, something bigger, this episode is your permission slip to stop fighting it and finally own what you really want.

✨ PS: Enrollment is open for Literary Queens, my signature storytelling workshop for women ready to own their voice and write their most magnetic stories. Join us here.

📖 For more stories like this, find me on Substack at Cara Says It All → https://caraalwill.substack.com

Transcript

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0:00.0	Hi guys, welcome back to the show. You were listening to Kara Says at all. I'm so excited to be back
0:05.5	with you today. I'm having a cup of coffee. I have been reading all of your comments, DMs, messages about
0:13.6	my last episode that I did with Aaron. And I just want to thank you all for being so loving and so
0:18.5	supportive. I'm so happy that you guys loved it.
0:24.0	If you didn't listen to it, go listen to it.
0:26.7	It's, I think, probably the longest podcast I've ever done.
0:31.0	But it was so much fun recording with him and just sharing everything.
0:32.5	You know, I'm an open book.
0:33.6	He's an open book.
0:38.6	So together we just really talked about our whole entire relationship, what it was like to fall in love, to break up a couple of times, to come back together, to now be engaged,
0:45.7	planning our wedding, and me moving down to Florida. I mean, this is my last Saturday in New York
0:51.2	City. And I grew up here, and it's wild. And I want to actually talk about
0:54.6	that. That's what we're going to get into in today's episode. Just this concept of how quickly
0:58.7	life can change and how fast you can manifest the things that you really truly want. But before we
1:06.8	dive in, I just want to give a quick housekeeping update. Doors are open for Literary Queens, which is my signature storytelling workshop.
1:15.3	I love it.
1:15.7	It's a five-week live program.
1:18.3	Everything's recorded, so if you can't make it live, that's okay.
1:20.3	But I just personally love to do all of my masterminds, courses, workshops live.
1:27.1	Literary Queens is my signature storytelling program.
1:31.1	It is so much fun. If you're looking to learn the skills and have the confidence to really
1:36.9	own your voice and tell your story in a powerful way that really hits, whether it's on your
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