Cara & Aaron: Breaking Up, Making Up, and Getting Married! All the Tea You Asked For

Style Your Mind Podcast

Cara Alwill

Girlboss, Confidence, Selfimprovement, Positivethoughts, Education, Self-improvement, Personaldevelopment, Raiseyourvibration, Bosslady, Motivation, Girlpower, Lifecoach, Entrepreneurship, Empoweringwomen, Liveyourbestlife, Mindfulness, Selfhelp, Manifestation, Business, Inspiration, Inspiring

4.8 • 1.5K Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2025

⏱️ 98 minutes

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Summary

It’s the episode you’ve all been waiting for…

In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Aaron and I sit down to share the full story of how we broke up (more than once), how we found our way back to each other, and how we ended up engaged.

We open up about:

• Why our relationship ended and what finally brought us back together
• The healing work we both had to do
• Aaron’s reaction to reading about himself in my book
• What dating long distance (and in our 40s) taught us about real love
• The moment I knew we were ready
• Our proposal story (!!)
• Why men commit, “if he wanted to, he would,” and all the nuance in between

PLUS: the urgent care trip for Viagra visit (yes, really lol), our blow-up fights, our mind-blowing makeup sex, the tears, the laughs, and the one moment that changed everything.

It’s messy, romantic, honest and hilarious.

This is our plot twist. And we’re so glad you’re here for it.

💌 Want more of the story? Read The Plot Twist Diaries on Substack and grab my latest book, Don’t Do Anything I Would Do.

Transcript

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0:00.0	Like, what the hell?
0:01.4	What the hell?
0:02.4	What the hell?
0:02.9	You should edit out the part where you're like, what the hellie?
0:06.0	What the hell?
0:08.0	What the hell?
0:08.8	What the hell?
0:08.8	I'm like.
0:09.9	This is Kara says it all.
0:11.5	The show where we drop the script and say what we really think.
0:15.4	I'm Kara Allwill, your host and go-to for unfiltered conversations on life, love, business, creativity, and everything that shapes us.
0:25.3	Here we believe that the power to create your own story starts now.
0:29.3	No filters, no apologies.
0:32.3	Whether you're here for inspiration, a laugh, or a perspective shift, buckle up because we're going deep and keeping it
0:39.3	real. Welcome to the conversation. Okay, ladies, he's back. It's been a minute since you've heard
0:48.0	his voice on the podcast, but in case you miss it, I am engaged. And of course, I had to bring
0:52.8	my fiancé, Aaron, back on the show so we can
0:56.6	unpack our plot twist love story and take you behind the scenes of what it's really, truly
1:01.1	been like to reunite, rebuild, and start a whole new chapter together. From our long-distance
1:06.9	love to our champagne-soaked proposal that still does not feel real to me every single day
1:12.8	wake up and look at this rock on my finger and think like, did I buy this for myself?
1:17.0	Like what's happening? We're sharing everything. This is the real deal. I'm answering your
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