The Bert show your friend thinks you're toxic. Do you respect their boundaries or drop them as a friend? You can find that out. We got new bonus material today.

It has already dropped you can find it at the birth show

dot com slash bonus BS. All right so there are a couple of needs here right you got

one person that has pretty dirty house and her friend doesn't have a job so is it awkward to go hey you

know what I know we're friends and all but how you feel about cleaning my house that's

the email that we got this morning. Hi Bird Show, found you guys on

Facebook and I've been listening ever since. Thanks for keeping it real with your family

meetings. Life is hard. Hope everyone on the show is doing better. My boyfriend and I are a couple of years out of college and doing pretty well financially.

We make a sizable income and have a beautiful home.

Many of our friends are not as fortunate, or should I say as established as we are yet.

Between the economy and less career ambition there is a clear financial divide.

We do activities within our friends budgets and save expensive meals or events for just the two of us.

My problem is that we have a housekeeper who comes every month.

She's moving and no longer able to clean our home.

My boyfriend wants to offer the job to two of our friends who have the time to clean

and could really use the extra money.

It'd be one thing if one of our friends cleaned homes for a living, but no, neither one of them does this for a living.

It would be a side hustle for extra cash.

Will our friends be offended if we even make this offer?

Not that there's anything wrong with cleaning houses.

It's a respectable job, but it will seem like a pity offer and make them feel worse rather than better.

Also, do we really want friends... and make them feel worse rather than better.

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