This is the virtue. We've all got the flaky friends, right? But they have to do a couple

of things right off the bat for you to label them the flaky friend. Look to some friends

that I have on that dude. With other guys, I'm not, but with some dudes, I'm that flaky

guy, but I earned that label, you know, like I'm supposed to be somewhere, I don't, I'm

going to do something stupid and flaky. But I'm still a decent friend and that really

is the question here. So yes, yes and no, because I do believe you can be flaky and

still be a good friend. The question is, can you be flaky and still be a good partner

someone that you're actually romantic with? And me and a friend of mine are on different

ends of this because well, to paint the picture, um, she really likes this guy and she's

liked this guy for quite some time, a couple years. And they went on a date, I think they

went on a date or two, maybe two dates about maybe a year and a half, two years ago.

And good dates like she, she enjoyed his company, she enjoyed everything about this

dude. She really couldn't find anything she didn't like. The only thing was he claimed

at the time that he was going through a lot of things in his life and some family issues

and he wanted to kind of step out there and start dating again. But in doing so, I think

he realized that it wasn't a good time for him. And maybe he just simply wasn't ready.

And he didn't go stir. He was honest. He was up front. He kept it real with him and

they stopped talking and she wanted to kind of keep in touch. But I guess he didn't.

So had in her for about a year. So now he comes back into the picture and you know,

hits her up like, how you doing? How you been? How's everything? And she's like, I'm cool.

And then that's when she kind of hits me up like, and this dude is back out of nowhere.

And a part of me wants to give him a chance of part of me. Doesn't. And I'm like, you know,

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