Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence Podcast. My name is Amber, and today I have a big episode for you.

I have a huge list of things that I want to talk to you about all around the topic of

are you to blame for this person's actions and the way that they treat you and the way that

they're showing up in your connection. Before we get into that, I want to talk to you about my

coaching program that's starting March 1st and we're enrolling

before March 1st. So my coaching program is called from dating to exclusive without playing

games and it's a four-month program where we will work closely together and we'll be working

on that transition from dating to exclusive and how to navigate everything in

between, including your emotions, building your confidence, interactions with the men that you're

dating, online dating, all of those things. So if you want to be on the wait list for that,

which I highly recommend, there's going to be a link in the show notes and also in the link of my Instagram bio.

The wait list gives you a $200 discount when you are ready to join in February.

And you'll also be able to enroll earlier than everybody else which gives you a

much better chance of actually getting in at that time. So again the link is in the bio of

the show notes. And then if you haven't already I also have a free guide called copy and paste

text for when he's pulling away or acting flaky.

And the link for that is going to be in the show notes. So that's an eight page guide with the

most common scenarios where somebody's pulling away, acting flaky, and exactly what you can

write back and how to interpret that situation as well. Okay, so for today's episode, I want to talk about

the personalization that we do around other people's behavior. And there's a healthy level of this,

and that's probably why you're here. That's why you listen to a podcast about how to change

your thoughts,

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