"Is he avoidant or just not that into me?"

On Attachment

Stephanie Rigg

Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Education, Relationships

5 • 1K Ratings

🗓️ 4 May 2023

⏱️ 12 minutes

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In today's episode, I'm answering the question of "How do I know if someone is avoidant or just not that interested in me?" This is a question I get A LOT - and the answer might surprise you. I'm going to share a common misconception about avoidant attachment in early dating, as well as some hard truths about why we seek out people whose behaviour leaves us questioning whether they're interested or not. Upcoming Events Byron Bay Retreat - Apply now! 🏝️ Sydney Intensive - Buy tic...

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0:00.0	You're listening to On attachment, a place to learn about how attachment shapes the way we experience
0:09.9	relationships and where you'll gain the guidance, knowledge and practical tools to overcome
0:15.6	insecurity and build healthy thriving relationships.
0:20.1	I'm your host, relationship coach Stephanie Rigg, and I'm really glad you're here.
0:28.3	Hey everybody, welcome back to another episode of On Attachment. In today's episode episode I am answering one of the most
0:35.1	frequently asked questions that I get which is how do I know if someone is
0:40.4	avoidant or just not that into me.
0:43.7	So I know that a lot of you listening will relate to this question purely by virtue of
0:48.4	how often I get asked.
0:49.8	It really is something that I'm hearing all the time from people, you know, how can I figure out, particularly in early dating, whether the way someone's behaving towards me, which might feel sort of unclear or ambiguous or maybe not super interested, do I put that down to the fact that they're not interested or is there something more different at play here that might be their
1:15.9	attachment patterns, their avoidant attachment style. How can I tell the difference and what do I do
1:21.3	about it? So that's what I'm going to be talking through today.
1:25.4	Before I dive into that, just want to share the featured review for today,
1:28.2	which is, this is the only podcast I wait for new episodes to be released every week it's just that good.
1:34.3	Even when I don't think the episode's going to be related to me, I find a new way to apply it to my life
1:38.8	and be able to better understand the people around me. I recently started Stephanie's anxious attachment course and it has flipped the way I experience relationships.
1:46.1	I can't thank Stephanie enough for this magical gift of a podcast that came into my life just when I needed it.
1:52.1	Thank you so much for that beautiful review. I'm so glad that you've been loving the podcast and healing anxious attachment.
1:58.0	That is all very lovely feedback so thank you so much for sharing. If that was your review, please send an email to
2:04.4	podcast at Stephanie rig.com and my team will set you up with free access to one of my
2:09.6	master classes as a way to say thank you. Okay, so let's talk about whether they're avoidant or just not into you,
2:16.0	this big question that I always get.
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