Today on The Girl to Find show, we were talking about how to discern a guy's true character.

I mean, let's be real. When you are in the dating phase, there is nothing more terrifying than dating

a guy and wondering like, okay, is he actually who he says he is? And if you've been through a breakup

and you're like, the man he said he was at the beginning turned out not to be who he is. And it's

a very painful process, which both of us have been through in our past.

And it is just like the trash cans.

It is the worst.

And so we want to help you with practical tools to know how can I discern a guy's true character?

And if you're married, we want to give you tools to mentor and help the single women around you.

Like help a single girl out.

So from our own painful past experiences, here is some practical advice that if you are

single or dating, you really need to know.

Hey, Sisterhood.

It is Kristen and Bethany here.

Welcome back to another episode of The Girl to Find Show.

We are so glad you're here with us.

And like Bethany said, if you're single or actually if you're dating or you want to be dating or you have your eye on a guy,

this is an episode for you. And then for all of you married women who are like, oh, this isn't

really for me. This is just as much for you because how many times do your single friends

come to you and say, what do you think? What do you think about this guy? Do you see any red flags? Do you see any problems?

Hopefully they're coming to you. Or just saying, like, do you have any advice? You know, a single girl who's not

dating? She sees your marriage. She respects you. And she's like, hey, what advice would you have for me?

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