Who you marry might be the most important decision of your life, but it can also be the least rational.

Maybe loneliness plays a role, maybe lust, maybe forces we don't grasp at all.

It's guesswork and blind intuition.

He was quite excited and kept saying,

I can't wait to be married to you and just, I'm so in love with you and so on. I was a little more

nervous. Deborah is a successful interior designer. She tells everybody about the handsome doctor she met online who seems to live only for her.

We would take a walk, he would hold my hand and want to hear all about my day.

John makes her feel alive again.

He came off as the perfect husband.

But her family doesn't like John.

To be honest, his story about having the three cars in the

house it didn't make a lot of sense to me. I called BS on that. Like why does a

practicing anesthesiologist never seem to have any money?

When he leaves the house in his blue surgical scrubs, where does he go all day?

I would try to look him in the eye and he would try to look away so that just kind of says something about

somebody.

John tells her the problem is with her children. They're spoiled trying to sabotage her happiness. They want her money.

And her psychologist tells her she needs to establish boundaries with her children. But is there

something about John's past he's trying to hide?

I opened the mailbox and there was a letter from a guy from Jill.

I thought, why is he getting a letter from someone from Jill?

Devil's got your boyfriend. He's got the one. someone from the Los Angeles Times and Woundery this is Dirty John.

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