All right. Hey guys, welcome back to pre-Llance podcast. This is just there today.

Whitney is seeing clients, but we have a super special guest. We're so excited.

Renee, you know her, the mom room and your best friend you should have as a mom basically.

I love it.

Thanks for having me.

Yeah, we are big fans and I'll tell you the very first real that I think I saw of yours was someone was like saying basically like why your husband would have to do any job when he came home.

And I was like, did some do any job when he came home.

And I was like, did someone literally ask her that? But then I'm like, and then more I become a mom

and have another son, I was like, people ask that and assume that and actually believe we should look that way.

When you explained it I was like, thank God someone saying it right?

Yeah, I think that comment was, well, I've received a ton obviously, but someone had said something like,

so you expect your husband to do 100% of his job and then come home and do 50% of your job and I was like,

no, no, no, no, no.

Like he, he also lives in this house and he also has children or a child plus two dogs. They're kind of like children.

Absolutely. So that's not how it works.

No, so do people just like, okay, so let's tell it, let me tell it back up to our audience.

You have a great podcast, you have a great following, moms come to you for just like the real right and it's like do people just like randomly send you these horrible comments or is it just you think because you're out there being honest about motherhood that it just really rubs them wrong.

I think majority of comments like that that I get are from Tik-Tok and I think the reason Tik-Tok is less of a there's less of a sense of

community because when you post something it just goes out and anybody can see it.

So I think a lot of times what happens is when I talk about something that is,

like it shouldn't be controversial, but you know something that rubs people the wrong way like saying yeah my husband comes home and is 50-50

child care house care tasks.

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