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Dharmapunx NYC

Insecurity in Relationships and How to Move Towards Secure Attachment

Dharmapunx NYC

josh korda

Religion & Spirituality, Religion & Spirituality:buddhism, Buddhism

4.8886 Ratings

🗓️ 29 March 2017

⏱️ 60 minutes

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in the core Buddhist teachings known as the Paticha Samapata,

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and that's where the Buddha outlines how suffering is caused

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in most people's lives, stress and suffering.

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And this idea is called Nama Rupa.

0:19.0

It's never really terrifically defined or certainly it's difficult to

0:26.8

translate what it means.

0:28.8

It's kind of actually you can define it

0:31.6

as each individual's core psychological makeup, which exists from a very early age of life. In the chain the Buddha says right along with the very

0:47.1

introduction of consciousness in human life there is this development of our core psycho biological individual makeup.

0:58.0

And interestingly enough, this idea that something happens very very early in life that has far reaching

1:07.3

implications into our adult lives and especially our behaviors and how we experience stress in our life.

1:16.0

It's of course become 2,500 years later, extremely well documented in virtually the entire world of psychology.

1:30.0

It actually is an idea that has been present through much of human culture at different times.

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Around 1800 Wordsworth wrote a poem where he said a child is the father of the man and he goes on in that

1:46.7

poem to state that the things in life that bring us joy and emotional responses is set in our childhood.

1:55.0

Of course in the 100 years since Freud and Jung this should really not be mind-blowing ideas.

2:06.2

Certainly, Freud posited the idea

2:08.6

that there is this series of early psychosexual stages that determine how later on in life our

2:19.3

regression and neurosis originates.

2:24.1

Freud posited that there's stages like the oral,

2:29.1

anal, genital stage, and if you get stuck in one, then you tend to regress back to that in adult life and

2:36.4

he also had the idea that there's this crucial moment of the edible drama which revolves around the idea that the one

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