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Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel, and Live Well

Influence and the Science of Making Good Things Happen • 226

Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel, and Live Well

Melissa Monte | Conscious Coach

Mental Health, Mindfulness, Consciousness, Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth, Inspirational, Awakening, Religion & Spirituality, Spirituality, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.9897 Ratings

🗓️ 19 April 2022

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

We will learn: The single best predictor of human behavior. How to spot manipulators before it's too late. The one thing that influences behavior above anything else. Who do you influence? What are you influenced by? Today we are harnessing our influence. Whether you want to transform your life, your organization, or even the course of history. And we’re going to learn an ethical approach to influence that will make life better for everyone, starting with you.Links from the episode: Show Notes: https://mindlove.com/226 Sign up for The Morning Mind Love for short daily notes from your highest self. Get Mind Love Premium for exclusive ad-free episodes and monthly meditations. Support Mind Love Sponsors See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to Mind Love episode 226.

0:03.5

Today's episode is all about influence and the science of making good things happen.

0:08.5

Diminishers are these linguistic hedges that we use to try to have people like us.

0:17.8

The idea is we don't want people to be angry at us or scared of us.

0:21.7

But what the real effect is is having people not pay attention to us.

0:26.4

It's very hard to pay attention to someone who's doing the thing that you were just

0:29.3

modeled, like, just wondering, I kind of thought like, I could be wrong, I don't know if this is a good idea.

0:36.0

And on the other end of that, you're like, get to the point.

0:39.8

We respond to direct communication,

0:43.3

we respond to questions.

0:45.2

So if you're in a situation where,

0:48.7

you know, you want the person to like you

0:50.4

and you don't want to be just in their face feeling like you're demanding, but you can

0:56.2

just ask them a question.

0:57.6

Turn up your frequency with mind love.

1:03.0

Bite-sized brain hacks for seekers, dreamers, and doers.

1:07.0

It's time to give your mind a little love

1:10.0

with your host, Melissa Monte.

1:14.0

It's a new day.

1:16.0

It's a new day, a new episode

1:21.0

and a new opportunity to subscribe to the podcast.

1:24.8

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