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Hi, I'm Caroline Stambury and I am divorced, not dead.

I'm a former Bravo TV star and now former wife.

Fresh off the pack of my divorce,

I'm bringing real stories, real life, real talk on all things that aren't said

between each other, society, the sheets and everything in the middle.

And lucky me, you'll be joining me for the journey, so buckle up.

So welcome back to divorce, not dead.

And this episode is on transitioning.

If you had told me it would be as good or as easy as it is,

I probably wouldn't have believed you.

And I know it's really hard because when you have two adults with lives,

I mean, especially when you get to 45, I mean, you know,

I am actually amazed how many girlfriends I know that have had two or three marriages.

I'm like, how the fuck do you move on that quickly and make it work?

It's really difficult.

I don't know, really, had surgery or not been this young,

whether it would be possible for me to have made this work as easily as it has,

because I sometimes I bet, bed and look at like a think to myself if he was 50 or, you know,

all of you lot think society thinks that I should be with a businessman who's in his 50s or 45,

he would have had three kids or whatever else.

I mean, the thought of walking around with six children toed behind me,

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