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Hi, I'm Caroline Stambury and I am divorced, not dead.

I'm a former Bravo TV star and now former wife.

Fresh off the pack of my divorce, I'm bringing real stories, real life, real talk on all things

that aren't said between each other, society, the sheets and everything in the middle.

And lucky me, you'll be joining me for the journey, so buckle up.

So welcome back to another episode of Divorced, Not Dead.

It is now 9 am, so weird, I just got up this morning, had my coffee and decided to come down and

record this one. It's going to be called Don't Mind the Gap. Or do we, girls? I don't know.

So here we go. This is all I can tell you because since I started dating Sergio, however long ago,

it is now a metta my guest, two and a half years ago, and we're probably into our

second year of being together and getting married, which is some place that I never saw myself

going, which is really, really odd. What can I tell you? He has been one of the biggest blessings

in my life and also one of the hardest things because, you know, from the onset, everyone has

preconceptions of why Sergio is here or what we were doing or I think when you've been married

as long as we've all been married or you're as old as I am. People like comfortable, people like

to see you in your comfortable life knowing that you've got to this far and everything's amazing

...