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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

In Solidarity

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 1 June 2020

⏱️ 4 minutes

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Summary

In solidarity with the protests happening in our beloved city of Minneapolis and across the world, we will not be releasing an episode this week. We demand justice for George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Tony McDade, and countless others murdered by police. They should be here today and they aren't because of white supremacy and state-sanctioned violence. Not uploading an episode is a moment of silence at best. Typing Black lives matter is not enough. The real work comes when we begin to actively dismantle white supremacy within our communities, our governments, and ourselves. To our listeners who are Black, Indigenous and People of Color: We hear you. We see your grief, anger, and exhaustion. We love you and we will work to ensure that love is manifested in actual actions. To our white listeners: We must not be complicit with racism and murder. We cannot be silent. We must be active participants in the dismantling of white supremacy and systemic racism. If you do not understand why this movement is happening or where the outrage is coming from, it's time to self-educate. It's okay if you are new to this but do not let your discomfort keep you from the truth. We all have the opportunity to grow and do things differently. Lean in. Speak out. Donate. Show up. We've compiled some of our favorite resources that have helped us in our ongoing unlearning of white supremacy. That being said, to quote Rachel Cargle: "Anti-racism work is not self-improvement work for white people. It doesn't end when white people 'feel better.' It ends when Black people are liberated." HOW TO HELP RIGHT NOW FREE UNLEARNING RESOURCES AVAILABLE ONLINE:  Enough is Enough The 1619 Project Building a Police Free Future Violence in Minneapolis is Rooted in the History of Racist Policing in America 13th   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I recently realized that my financial stability making smart

0:05.0

financial choices over my life. It's not just about the everyday places that I

0:10.4

spend my money on or good or bad choices that I make, it's mostly about having an

0:16.4

awareness, like a full clear awareness of where my money is going, what is it actually being spent on?

0:23.8

Are there like hidden subscriptions that I've been paying for

0:27.1

or how much did these spending habits actually add up?

0:31.7

And I recently downloaded Rocket Money. It's a personal finance

0:34.8

app that helps you find and cancel your unwanted subscriptions, monitors your

0:38.8

spending and helps lower your bills, and it's been great. So far, honestly one of my favorite things that it does

0:44.5

every week is it sends me a notification letting me know the difference in how much

0:49.9

I spent from one week to another so that it's put there right plain as day in front of me,

0:55.3

that the impact that my spending habits have on me.

0:59.2

And it also lets me know when I have an upcoming bill which I love so that I can be

1:03.1

really prepared for it. I can see all of my subscriptions in one place and if I

1:07.5

see something I don't want I can cancel it with a tap. I never have to get on the

1:11.6

phone with customer service which is great for me and my social anxiety.

1:15.6

They'll even try to get you a refund for the last couple of months of wasted money and

1:20.7

negotiate to lower your bills for you up to 20% which is great if you

1:25.1

find out seven months after the fact that you had that subscription that you didn't

1:29.6

know about all you have to do is take a picture of your bill and Rocket Money will take care of the rest.

1:35.0

Rocket Money has over 5 million users and has helped saved its members an average of

1:39.5

720 dollars a year with over $500 million in cancelled subscriptions.

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