The fact that there are 59 different one another's in the New Testament about how we're to actually live in community with each other should at the very least cause us to ponder.

Maybe my life of isolation is not the path that God has for me says about me or us in the social media age. I'm not going to try to psychoanalyze it. But I wanted to have you on because of your social media before I even knew you were a pastor.

So I don't even know what that says about me, but I was.

Or for that matter.

Oh, right.

Who knows?

Like I said, we're not going to go into the psychology of that.

But I will tell you this, I was then more interested in having you on when I knew

you were a pastor, not less interested. So that's actually good news for us. But here was then my

thought process today. We're getting into my brain early, which might scare you off. But here's then

was my thought process was this. Okay, Ian doesn't know me at all. Do I dive into the questions that I really want to ask him or do we start off softball? Because there's some stuff that I want to ask you in a way that I want to ask it, but we're not friends yet. So I just don't know.

Oh, I say jump into the deep end. Let's get after it. Let's go.

See, that's what I read from your social media, but you never know. But here's the thing about

social media. What I find is when you write things like you do, that kind of isn't, it can't be

manufactured. So I sensed that you could go with me on the

hard question. So we'll find out soon. So you pastor in Nashville. How long have you passed her to

Nashville? We've been down here about three and a half years. Okay. But you're not from Nashville.

No, man. Michigan, Illinois. Okay, if you call me ma Nashville. No, ma'am.

Michigan, Illinois. Okay, if you call me ma'am, then I feel old.

We have to be somewhat in, we have to at least be in the ballpark of adulthood.

So we can't, you can't call me ma'am.

This is just how I was raised. I call everybody ma'am and sir. I can't help. I love that. Well, that's also polite. I think there's, that is underrated, actually. My kids still call everybody ma'am and sir, too, so I think that's good. Okay, but you move there to

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