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LOVERS by Shan

If You're Single, You Have to Listen to This Feat Glo Atanmo

LOVERS by Shan

Lemonada Media

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

5.05.7K Ratings

🗓️ 25 January 2023

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

On your journey to find and keep love (if this is your wish) have you ever felt like maybe you are meant to stay single forever?That is how this week’s guest, Glo Atanmo aka Glo Graphics on IG felt throughout most of her life. She was used to not being any man's first choice only to later date 12 quality men at once. Then in 2022, she embarked on her pursuit of finding her forever love.  She is now openly sharing her love story with her millions of followers online. In this episode, she breaks down what the journey looked like and how she pursued an intentional dating season that led her to her lover.Research article by Lachlan Brown for HackSpirit called “I can’t find love”. - 20 things to remember if you feel this is you”.  You’re not really looking You’re list of wants in a partner is too long You’re in the wrong place You believe too much in soul mates and destiny You’re still not over your ex (intimate idealization) You don’t know what people want from you/ you don’t want to give it You have unresolved childhood issues You feel like you unconditionally deserve love You try way too hard You’re not being your true self You don’t know how to play the game You take dating for granted (entitlement issues) You sabotage relationships Thanks to the sponsors of this episode. ZocDOC: Go to https://zocdoc.com/lovers and download the  Zocdoc app for FREE. Babbel: Get up to 55% off your subscription by going to https://babbel.com/LOVERSMagic Spoon: Get 5$ off your order by going to https://magicspoon.com/LOVERSFollow Shan: http://instagram.com/shanboodyhttp://tiktok.com/shanboodyhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qngloversfriendspodcast@gmail.comFollow Glo: http://instagram.com/glographicsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Why did you get to that place where you thought to yourself, well, I might be single forever?

0:05.2

I just got realistic about the dating pool.

0:07.2

And I think I probably listened to too many sob stories.

0:10.3

And I'll just like mention this like as a sidebar.

0:13.2

But like pretty privilege and like growing up and then dating.

0:16.3

I was literally never desired.

0:18.2

Like I was the girl that guys came to to spit at my home girls.

0:21.9

At whatever point, I guess when you had that conversation with God, you said, I want my next

0:25.9

greatest adventure to be love.

0:27.9

Yeah, this was 2021.

0:30.7

Yeah, beginning to 2022.

0:33.0

I think at any given moment, I was probably chatting with 12, like, quality men.

0:37.6

But I didn't have, I dated, like, I feel like the rainbow.

0:42.4

And I took away preferences.

0:44.0

Like, after I realized that...

0:45.3

At any given moment, I was talking to 12 quality men.

0:48.8

Black women, please go to Europe.

0:50.3

We're not going to pretend that this is not a bar.

0:51.9

We're going to just skate past that.

1:05.8

Lovers and friends. I'm going to just skate past that. Welcome to lovers and friends, a podcast about sex, love, relationships, dating, life, intimacy.

1:13.8

My name is Shambudram.

1:15.0

I am a sex expert and relationship expert with an educational background in sexology, psychology, and journalism.

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