Celibutt...Good Lord It's Hard Ft Stephan Speaks
LOVERS by Shan
Lemonada Media
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🗓️ 1 February 2023
⏱️ 45 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | So walk me through your psyche right now of like celibacy. |
| 0:04.0 | For a long time, I wasn't even willing to say I'm off that train. |
| 0:08.5 | And even now, like even when you asked me earlier, I'm like, I'm conflicted. |
| 0:11.7 | I'm kind of in the middle. |
| 0:13.0 | So I'm never completely rejecting being abstinent. |
| 0:18.5 | I just know that right now it's a struggle like it's never been before. |
| 0:22.5 | So I think that's the huge difference between how I'm walking it out now and why it still |
| 0:26.7 | remains more of a conflict now compared to then. I was just like, I'm going to lock myself in this |
| 0:30.6 | room. I'm not going anywhere. That's it because I knew the minute I step outside, something might |
| 0:36.5 | happen. Lovers and friends. I'm gonna take you on a trip, baby, I don't pretend, I say, |
| 0:44.3 | lovers and friends, I'm gonna hold you down down to the end, I said. |
| 0:49.3 | Salivacy, abstinence, or as I recently discussed on a YouTube video on my main channel, |
| 0:55.8 | sex strikes. |
| 0:57.1 | Women, y'all grant access to sex. |
| 0:59.8 | So if you want to have a serious relationship, you're trying to build something with somebody |
| 1:03.6 | and you're not giving them sex, they can get it somewhere else. |
| 1:07.2 | Interestingly, as someone who talks about sex for a living, |
| 1:09.8 | I find myself talking about not having sex a whole lot too. |
| 1:13.6 | And even like right now, I'm currently in a season where I'm like, I really don't give a fuck about fucking. |
| 1:19.6 | Remember being in a space where I thought like I would never have sex again. |
| 1:24.6 | I think people would be really disappointed to hear currently about our sex life. |
| 1:29.3 | Becoming celibate was also my way of like taking out any confusion. |
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