Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about navigating the difficult relationship,

from simple disagreements to emotionally abusive behaviors.

You deserve respecting kindness.

All the information on this show is meant for educational purposes only.

Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being, and always pick your battles wisely.

I'm your host, Paul Koliani.

Welcome to another episode of love and abuse.

I just had something to say before I read this message.

Where is your line?

Where is the line that you draw? Like when somebody is hurting you, when somebody is being emotionally abusive, what if somebody's

being physically abusive?

What if they are being sexually abusive?

We have other things like spiritual abuse and financial abuse.

At what point do you draw the line? Because what ends up happening in any

abusive relationship is the line gets moved and sometimes it gets erased. That's what scares me.

It scares me when you erase the line and there is no more line.

The line is what somebody crosses before you say, that's enough.

And I don't even mean telling them that's enough.

I mean telling yourself.

That's enough.

This is the line. They've crossed it and I've had enough. And I won't

tolerate anymore. I won't take it anymore. And that might mean a number of things to a number

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