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Earn Your Happy

Identify The Patterns Holding You Back & Reclaim Your Power with Aisha Marshall

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 16 October 2024

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Ever wonder why the same struggles keep showing up in your life? In this episode, I’m joined by my amazing friend Aisha Marshall to dive into the concept of “cocoon season” and how to break free from recurring patterns that are holding you back. Aisha reveals how she discovered the deeper lessons behind her setbacks, including how she reclaimed her power after giving it away in business and personal relationships. We explore how to identify the patterns in your life that need to change, why cocoon seasons are necessary for growth, and how to emerge from them as your most empowered self. Get ready to achieve your best transformation in business and life! Check out our Sponsors: Shopify - Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Quince - Go to Quince.com/earn for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. BetterHelp - Get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/LORI today. HelloFresh - Get FREE breakfast for life at HelloFresh.com/freeearn. Found - Try Found for free at Found.com/EARN. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Meet the founder of the Butterfly SZN, Aisha Marshall. 03:15 The concept that came to life through Lori, Lindsey, and Aisha’s group chat. 07:00 What is the concept of cocoon and butterfly season? 10:00 How to recognize recurring patterns in relationships and business. 11:45 What it really means to give your power away in your business and life. 15:30 Lessons from the “cocoon season”. 19:15 How codependency disguises itself in different areas of your life. 21:30 How do you discern if you should push harder or fall back? 27:00 The root cause of recurring struggles or frustrations in your life. 30:15 How cocoon season is super powerful in your life. 39:45 What it means to reclaim your power. 45:15 The guide that will help you through your personal cocoon season. RESOURCES Check out the bonus content HERE! Get the Butterfly SZN Journal HERE Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness Aisha: @aisha Butterfly SZN: @itsbutterflyszn

Transcript

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0:00.0

It's the tangible process to when people say like you just have to like become the person you want to be I'm like what the

0:05.8

Does that mean like actually tangibly like I just wake up. I'm like I'm her and then nothing changes

0:11.2

It's like no what are you avoiding? What is a

0:14.2

reoccurring thing? For me it was a lot of friendships. I would meet the same girl

0:17.4

over and over and over again and the following out with this person would

0:20.0

happen bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger each time. I said it was a different girl every time.

0:23.9

And so what is it about me that is attracting these relationships and then not only that

0:29.2

what do I need to learn about myself, why do I choose these patterns,

0:34.8

and then what do I need to unlearn

0:36.6

to choose different patterns of behaviors,

0:38.4

and then by that action, I become that girl. Aisha, welcome to the Earn Your Happy Podcast. Thank you so much for coming on the show.

0:58.7

Thank you for having me. I'm excited to be here. I feel like you and I have chatted for hours and hours in hours in our times

1:07.4

together. Totally. It could be because we have. Yeah and they all some of them should

1:12.2

have been podcast some of them probably better off.

1:15.0

I'm sure not.

1:18.0

We, you guys, if you don't know, Aisha was one of the women who helped me get light pink out into the world and I want to explain just how much you helped with that so we can really understand that you are so multi talented and this will go into your background a bit and we'll get to talk about where you are now.

1:38.0

But you really helped me visually and with the brand to start to see what the brand identity looked like in the world and take shape and of course it took many different shapes but you initially were the person to be like look this is like this is what we're starting

1:55.3

yeah this is so great it was so beautiful you help like put the can together so I could

2:01.2

see what it looked like you You helped me with my deck, my investor deck, which, you know,

2:06.2

That was beautiful. It was so beautiful.

2:08.2

I still love that deck to this day. Oh my God, it helped raise two million dollars. The deck absolutely matters. Yeah yeah it's not the size of a deck but it's the motion

2:16.5

of the ocean yes absolutely so she helped me put together this incredible deck and I would not be anywhere I am with

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