"I work with Psychopaths"- This is What They Tell Me About How They Target Women | Aishia Grevenberg PT 2

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4.8 • 700 Ratings

🗓️ 16 April 2026

⏱️ 56 minutes

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If you’ve ever said, “I can’t leave, what about the kids?” or felt yourself minimizing, defending, or twisting reality to survive… this second half is your wake-up call. It's all about breaking out of survivor mode and finally FIGHTING for your life. Aishia Grevenberg is back dropping bombs on the ways women get STUCK: toxic therapy, linguistic Jenga, losing friends, self-blame, comparison traps, and why the fantasy can keep us imprisoned. We tackle the real risks of couples therapy in abusive relationships, how predators build alibis, why women sometimes turn on other women, and what healing actually looks and feels like after you walk away. PLUS: You're gonna get obsessed with Aishia’s genius “spreadsheet method” for spotting your own vulnerability patterns (somebody turn this into an app already because I need it!). SHOWNOTES Why We Minimize Threats, The Real Danger Walking Away vs. Losing Everything: Language Matters How “Kindness” Builds His Alibi Why Women Judge Other Women HARDER—A Self-Protective Mechanism PTSD, Support Groups, & What Healing Actually Looks Like Telling Your Story—How Shame Turns To Strength The Power of Seeing Yourself As Your Own Safe Place Court Battles & Kids—Why The System Isn’t On Your Side Overdrive, Proving Your Worth & The Cycle of Explosions Why “Nice Guy Energy” Can Be the Biggest Danger Support Groups, Vulnerability, and Real Healing Spreadsheet Method: How To Map Your Vulnerabilities Identifying Red & Green Flags—What Actually Matters Building Confidence Through New Experiences Radical Self-Love: Rituals, Tattoos, Embracing Your Inner Child Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Aishia Grevenberg: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mytherapistlife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mytherapistlife/ FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	All right, welcome back ladies. In part one, we drop some freaking bombs on how manipulators
0:08.0	scan you for weakness, how women get tested and why stepping back isn't always the safe option.
0:14.1	But part two is where we go from survival to true freaking power. Because once you actually
0:20.3	see the patterns, once you realize every interaction is just a test,
0:24.3	what do you do when your whole tribe turns on you or when even therapists miss the point?
0:30.4	This is for the freaking messy middle, the fight for your real damn self and the moment where you decide who you become.
0:37.1	Now here's what we're tackling, the wild,
0:38.9	uncomfortable reality of abusive relationships, including losing friends, losing pets, even your
0:45.0	damn home, and how to find your way back. We also go over the differences between abandoning
0:50.5	yourself and choosing yourself and how to actually break free from when the world
0:54.4	actually says that you're crazy. You don't want to hold on to it, so stay tuned for that one.
0:59.9	Then we go into how a spreadsheet and a tattoo helped this psychologist, Aisha, and other people
1:07.2	will build their bulletproof self-worth. Guys, I geeked out over this.
1:11.2	I freaking love tactics.
1:12.8	And this spreadsheet idea was bloody genius.
1:15.6	So stay tuned for that because you too can actually use it for yourself.
1:19.1	So guys, if you've ever felt trapped or blamed or like that inner child is calling the damn shot,
1:24.1	this is your wake-up call.
1:25.5	Don't blame yourself, but make the change. And how do you make
1:29.2	that change? It's right here on Women of Impad. So let's dive in right now. I'm Lisa Bilu. Let's get into it.
1:36.4	Another thing, and you've said this word before, but we minimised on like, well, it happened last year.
1:42.3	It wasn't yesterday. It's not all the time. His soccer team
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