Hello and welcome to another episode of IWay with Jamila Jamil, a podcast against Shame.

I hope you're well and I think you're going to enjoy today's chat.

And even though it's about a subject that is really, really dark, which is domestic violence and the survival process, the way that my guest delivers it is so extraordinarily relatable,

empowering, warm, human and at times hilariously funny because she can't help herself.

Chelsea Devantez is a comedian, she's a filmmaker, she's written for The Problem with John

Stewart, Bless This Mess, Tina Faye's Girls Five Ever, Not Dead Yet,

and she's the host of the massively popular podcast, Glamorous Trash,

where she invites her famous Hollywood friends to dissect celebrity memoirs.

It's an exceptional podcast.

She's so, so special, and she's now written a memoir about her life called,

I shouldn't be telling you this, but I'm going to anyway.

And it's all the different trials of tribulations't be telling you this, but I'm going to anyway.

And it's all the different trials of tribulations that she's gone through, but I think a standout subject that a lot of people wanted to talk to her about, and I wanted to talk to her about,

because so many of you have asked me to cover this subject, is domestic violence.

It's something that she experienced when she was younger, having also grown up in a household

that had domestic violence

in it. We don't really talk about what happened and she'll explain why she can't say the exact

details in this fascinating episode. But we mostly talk about the impact on your mind and what it does

to you and your perception of the world and the perception of yourself

and how you grieve the time that you feel like you've lost.

And also so importantly, you know, whenever I do ask me anything,

I get questions from a lot of you asking me,

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