Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

Hello my friend.

I would like to talk to you today about something that we do all the time

mindlessly and it is contradict our desires. Now I would say the average person you meet on the street, a friend, a relative, they do this all the time too and it's so easy to do it because we're so easily not

conscious. And sometimes we think we're being realistic or being practical when we contradict, contradict the things that we want.

So what do I mean by that, right?

Contradicting our desires.

Often we'll state in our minds or out loud in some in some cases

something that we want. I want to go to Europe.

I want to write a book I want to fall in love I want

fill in the blank what's a desire that you have right now maybe it's a short-term

desire maybe a long-term desire, I want to buy a house,

I want to double my income, I want to make a great supportive circle of really ambitious new friends. What is it that you want? Think about it for just a moment. Come up with any statement.

I'll wait. But come up with any statement about a desire that you have.

Okay? Got one? It's so easy to say in your mind or out loud, I want but. I want a new career but there aren't any opportunities right now. I want to write a book or

launch a business but I don't know where to start and I'm not good at starting new things. I want to go to Europe

but I don't have the money or the time this year. I want to make new friends but I live in a small town and there's no one really for me to meet here.

Do you realize how unsupportive those but statements are. You may as well completely erase, eradicate the desire altogether

because it's like saying, it's truly as if we're saying, I want this but it's like saying it is truly as if we're saying I want this but it's impossible so why bother?

Stop it. What can we say instead? What can we think instead? What can we say instead? What can we believe instead?

I want to go to Europe and I've had friends who've gone who've found deals, who've managed to take a few days in the summer and enjoy a trip that they can afford.

Or I want to write a book and I may not have all the answers yet,

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