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Would I be the jerk for telling my wife to show me her phone

after I got an email accusing her of cheating.

This was originally posted on October 8th, 2024.

I, a 47-year-old man, have a comfortable and fulfilling life.

I have a job I truly enjoy.

I live in a nice suburb, and I'm blessed with three wonderful children,

an 8-year-old boy and a six- and four-year-old girl,

and a lovely wife, Emily, who's 45.

Now, I've always felt that Emily and I were an ideal match.

However, a recent email I received has deeply unsettled me and planted a seed of doubt in my mind.

Emily lived in the UK between 2010 and 2015,

during which time she pursued a PhD. Because she lived there so long, she developed many close friends

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