I honestly thought my wife was an unhappy, nagging, complaining-ass person, right?

But of course, as I diagnosed narcissists, I'm going to misinterpret a lot of things.

Of course, as they diagnosed narcissists, I'm going to see the world through my own kind of narcissistic lenses, right?

And of course, she wasn't actually nagging.

She was just feeling unheard.

So that's what we're talking about today, y'all.

How I and other narcissists misinterpret people's feelings when it affects us negatively.

When it makes us feel bad about ourselves and how we feel internally, how we feel as a person.

When we take your feelings or the feelings of other people as as a personal

attacks instead of just constructive criticism and love coming from a different place right

but before we hop too deep into it make sure you hit that subscribe button y'all if you don't know

the story my wife had left for the last time around what this is February March of 2020 right around when the pandemic

was first getting kicked off and first getting started and the governor right I think was

Roy Cooper at the time had it had like put out a stay at home order right and guess what she did

not stay at home she she left she packed herself up and left and of, I wasn't taking any type of accountability. I was blaming her, blah, blah, blah, blah, boo, b'b, b'all. Y'all get it. Y'all get out of mind. I don't need to go into detail. But honestly, we had a couple of marriage counseling sessions, and I feel like that's what helped me out, right? Before i go any further this is in no way shape or form

uh an endorsement for you to go to marriage counseling with an abusive narcissistic partner this is not

an endorsement i have been in therapy for nine years right so my mind works a little different right

and this is not this is not me saying i'm the best narcissist in the world this is is just me stating factual data that I've had nine user therapy, right? Don't let my therapy journey influence you to go to therapy with a lie and manipulative, cheating, narcissistic, bad. So, okay, that's it right there. But in reality, like, we went to marriage counseling and the therapist let her talk. You know, we was on on Zoom so she muted me and just let my wife

have a few minutes to just get her get it all out of her system and when my wife was talking right

the whole time she was talking in my mind I'm like she is nagging she is complaining she's only

talking about the bad stuff right that's how I saw it I felt like everything that she was saying

was 100% a personal attack on me from her own skewed perspective or something that it was her dad's fault, right? Your dad wasn't there. So that's why you misinterpret things that a real man does. You don't know how a real man is supposed to act, right? But of course, I was not acting and behaving and treating her like a real man should. Of course. I get that. Just back off. Give me a little grace. Damn. No, but for real, I was really not a good partner at that time. But while she was talking under new, because this is over Zoom, right? While she was talking talking I'm taking notes under the camera right

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