I stole €1.75 million from work to feed my gambling habit.
Life Changing
BBC
4.6 • 804 Ratings
🗓️ 14 April 2021
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
Jane Garvey talks to Tony O’Reilly about the time he was forced to confront his spiralling addiction.
Tony O’Reilly is from County Carlow in the Republic of Ireland. He placed his first bet at the age of 24. It was 1998 and like many, he was watching the World Cup. He and a mate put a pound on Kluivert to score the first goal in the Netherlands - Argentina quarter final and a final result of 2-1. He won. And so began his relationship with gambling.
It started as a bit of fun at the weekend but years later, once he’d got an online account, the betting escalated rapidly and soon turned in to a full-on addiction.
On his wedding day, Tony believed he’d lost all the money that was to pay for the event. He was saved when a horse he’d backed came from nowhere to win at the Epsom Derby. And so his addiction remained a secret. Now, with mounting debts and a baby on the way, Tony started to steal from his employer in a desperate attempt to try and win and pay everything back. By the end he had stolen 1.75 million Euros. On the day the auditors arrived to check the accounts Tony went on the run.
He ended up in prison, his marriage fell apart and he lost his home but he never placed another bet. Now, a decade on, Tony is a full-time gambling addiction counsellor with Extern Problem Gambling and gives talks at secondary schools about the dangers of betting.
Details of organisations offering information and support with addiction are available at bbc.co.uk/actionline, or you can call for free, at any time to hear recorded information on 08000 155 947
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| 0:39.9 | Hi, this is Jane Garvey and a warm welcome to life-changing, where we hear from people who've |
| 0:44.7 | lived through challenging experiences. And today, it's Tony O'Reilly. He's from County |
| 0:50.3 | Carlo in the Republic of Ireland. He has a frankly terrifying tale to tell about his addiction |
| 0:56.4 | to gambling. As you'll hear, he had some big wins, and I do mean big, but his losses were even |
| 1:03.2 | bigger and he ended up in prison. He's now doing everything he can to put things right. He was |
| 1:09.6 | 24 when he first set foot in a bookies |
| 1:12.1 | during the World Cup summer of 1998. |
| 1:16.1 | I was working that day in a bar called Scrags Alley in Carlo, my hometown. |
| 1:20.8 | And a friend of mine who was also a customer at the bar said he was going down to place a bet. |
| 1:26.6 | And so I decided to go down and have a look and it was the quarterfinal of the World Cup |
| 1:30.9 | Argentina were playing Holland and I remember walking into the Bucky office and it was just |
| 1:37.6 | a hive of activity it was real energetic it was before the smoking man so was smoke filled |
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