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Hi, this is Janet Lansbury and welcome to Unruffled.

In this episode, I'm going to be responding to an email I received about a girl who is

two years old and voicing her feelings and sometimes saying things that her mother isn't

sure about.

Here's the note that I received.

My two year old is very in tune with voicing her feelings.

I'm sad, I'm mad, I'm happy, I love you, etc.

We've learned she needs her own space at times and she now says, excuse me, or no thank

you instead of go away or pushing.

But lately, when she's in disagreement with something I've said, she says, I know like

you, go away.

I know she means, I'm upset with what you have said, but how do I rephrase her?

And should I?

Do I say anything about how it's not nice to say things like that?

My biggest concern is she is saying these things to kids at school.

Recently, she said this to her speech teacher when her session was done.

I needed to discuss a few things with her teacher, but my daughter wanted my full attention

and was ready for her teacher to leave.

I thought this didn't happen until the teen years and she says, ha ha, and I'll also say,

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