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Girlscamp

I'm post-Mormon but can't kick the patriarchy!

Girlscamp

Hayley Rawle

Documentary, Personal Journals, Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality

4.51.5K Ratings

🗓️ 26 July 2023

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

Laura Danger of ThatDarnChat lends her expertise on creating an equitable split of the domestic labor, especially for those of us raised religious with very restrictive views on gender roles. We talk about my viral Mother's Day video calling out "all men", what to do if your partner thinks they're helping out around the house more than they really are, how women can learn to prioritize their own needs and all that's illuminated in buying a pool floaty.

Fair Play: https://www.fairplaylife.com/

Emotional Labor book: https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Labor-Invisible-Shaping-Lives/dp/1250777356

Where to find Laura: @thatdarnchat @timetoleanpod

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0:00.0

G-I-R-L-S-C-A-N-P-S-C-A-P-S-C-A-N-P its girls can.

0:10.0

Hello everyone and welcome to Girls Camp. I'm your host

0:17.0

Haley Rawl and I am thrilled you are here. Always have been, always will be. If you hear some fireworks in the

0:26.0

background that is because it is July 25th the day after Pioneer Day in

0:31.7

Utah where we celebrate our pioneer ancestors,

0:36.8

although that is kind of a problematic thing to do

0:40.6

in a lot of ways, but I'm not sure why people are still doing fireworks on the Tuesday afterward, and I wish they wouldn't, because sometimes I wicks up my babies. But be as it may us U Tons some of us U-Tons apparently

0:57.1

want to celebrate Pioneer Day as much as we possibly can. Today's episode, boy oh boy, is it a good one?

1:06.1

I have joining us today, Laura Danger.

1:11.4

Laura is an expert in all things domestic and emotional labor. We talk about gender

1:18.9

roles and how often there is an inequitable split of household work of emotional labor in heterosexual

1:29.0

partnerships.

1:30.6

I do want to disclaim that we mostly are speaking about heterosexual couples here so we are talking

1:37.2

about you know marriages partnerships with a man and a woman and I do apologize for that.

1:44.1

However, I think the reason that that's the case

1:46.8

is because it is often in heterosexual relationship dynamics

1:52.0

that these stereotypical gender roles come out.

1:57.0

That said, I do think that this episode has phenomenal resources and advice for anyone who is currently partnered, has been partnered, hopes to be

2:07.3

partnered someday. It's just a really helpful episode to talk about learning how to share the load equally in a

2:16.8

partnership which can be a very difficult thing to do. Laura and I talk about this

2:21.4

a bit but a quick little bit of context, I posted a video about Mother's Day,

2:26.8

feeling disappointed in the men in my life for not initiating Mother's Day planning. It went pretty viral on Tik-Tok and part of the reason it went

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