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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

I'm Dating But Not Feeling It (with Allison)

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Christianity, Talk Radio, Default, Religion & Spirituality

4.8808 Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2025

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Today, I'm joined by DFCN counselor Allison, as we take an on-air call from CJ from Illinois who is struggling with low feelings in his dating relationships. How are you supposed to feel during dating, and what happens if you have "low" to "no feelings" when you're early on in a dating relationship? Do you keep going, or do you stop? How do you know if the problem is with you or with the relationship? We unpack CJ's question with him today on the Ask a Counselor series!! Book a session with Allison Fisher, M.A., LPC today! You can also ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠watch the full episode on YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Debra Fileta Counselors Network⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Debra Fileta Counselors Network⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. She is the bestselling author of eight books including ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Choosing Marriage⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Are You Really OK?⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RESET⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Care⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Talk To Me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances on national television and radio, including Better Together, The Kirk Cameron Show, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and many others. She reaches millions of people each year with the message of mental, emotional, and relational health. Connect with her on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DebraFileta.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I already have the understanding that in many cases, especially when anxiety hits, that it's not God.

0:10.0

That's not how he speaks. He doesn't speak through fear and anxiety and chaos.

0:15.0

But like what you were saying earlier, Deborah, it's true. A lot of people, especially who are struggling with anxiety,

0:25.3

and they have OCD or something, they don't experience East a lot of times. And so sometimes even that, even peace is not an accurate gauge because you may not feel it all the time.

0:35.1

Are you ready to talk to me? My name is Deborah Felata and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker, and author.

0:43.3

Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

0:52.2

The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, authentic,

0:57.0

counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give my guests

1:02.9

and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor.

1:08.1

Each of these episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing,

1:13.4

mentally, emotionally, spiritually and relationally, together. None of us are immune to the challenges

1:21.3

and struggles of life, but we don't have to walk this path alone. I'm so proud and honored to be having these conversations

1:29.8

with men and women who are courageously paving the way for open and honest conversations about

1:35.8

their personal journey of healing. So if you're ready, let's talk. So we're doing something a little different over the next few weeks called the Ask a

1:46.9

counselor series. As you know, I recently started the Deborah Felata Counselors Network,

1:52.6

a team of Christian counselors who are offering one-on-one online sessions to meet with you

1:58.2

and help you work through any personal or relationship issue you might be

2:02.1

facing. It's an amazing team of counselors that I get the privilege of leading, and I wanted you to get to

2:08.1

know them the way that I've been getting to know them. I've asked the counselors on my team to come and

2:13.4

join me on the podcast over the next few weeks to help me answer your questions for this Ask

2:18.6

the counselor series. And I can't wait for you to get to know them. To book a session with one of

2:24.5

our counselors, go to Deborahphalata.com slash counseling and get started on your journey of healing

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