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I've been kind of struggling with this question. It's more of a family matter than mine personally, but I'm really looking to get your insight on it.

So we had a strange family members for like the last 15 years that recently reached out within the last two weeks, um,

because, um, one of them passed away and the other, um, needs financial support, um,

but they're not explicitly looking for it.

So basically what it looks like is, um, the relation to me is that there, my

grandmother passed away and my uncle had been living with my grandmother.

And it was just the two of them for the last period of time.

And my uncle basically had no job.

So they were living off of her sister security and her life insurance, um, that we found after

she passed.

And essentially there's nothing left.

And he's dropping hints to us as the family saying, well, I don't know how I'm going to like make these

payments. I don't know like where my grocery bills are coming from. He's not explicitly

asking for things, but it's the way that he's phrasing things that it's making us

concerned that he's looking to us to be his savior. I wouldn't be concerned at all. Like,

because I know how this, I know how I can get his groceries paid for it. He can get a job.

Yeah. Right. Well, he's, he, he says that he can get a job. Um, he's not sure that he's going to be working because he does have a health condition. What is it is? I'm not exactly sure. I don't know all of the details on exactly what it is. I personally don't even believe that it is a health condition. What is it? Is prohibiting him? I'm not exactly sure. I don't know all of the details on exactly what it is.

I personally don't even believe that it is a health condition. I think he's just trying to use it as a

guilt trip. Exactly. But that's my personal view on that. I don't have the facts.

You're probably right.

Right. So let me ask you this. Why are you letting this person you haven't talked to in 15 years suddenly have a voice

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