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So I'm 21 and I graduate next month with a degree in finance.

Good for you.

And thank you. And so I've been dating my boyfriend now for almost a year.

And, you know, as I'm graduating and as we've been talking about our life together,

our future together, we have the idea of moving to Texas has come into mind. And so the idea

kind of came into play because my boyfriend has a buddy out there that he could work with and

make more money than what he's currently making. And I'm willing and open to

the idea. However, I made it very, very clear to him when we started talking about the move that

we both needed to have at least a couple thousand dollars saved up prior to the move. And I'm there.

I have that money saved up. I'm pretty much ready to move after I graduate. And I've talked to him

about potentially going and moving to Texas about one to two months before I do, because in the

whole time that we've been together, I've never seen him work full time. He's not in school and he never

went to college. And he works about 20 hours a week right now as a personal trainer in his own business.

And so I'm going to through that idea out there for him.

And he doesn't want to move out there without me because he thinks I won't follow him.

But I genuinely believe that he doesn't want to move out there with me because he doesn't have the financial means to do so.

And I think he wants me to be there with him so he can lean on me a little bit.

But I've been burned in the past by an ex-boy friend in a similar situation, and I lost

thousands of dollars.

And so I don't really know what to do.

He tells me that his financial status is none of my business, but I'm thinking

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