brought to you by the every dollar app start budgeting for free today when you narrow it down to

i've got just one shot yeah and if i miss that one shot on any decision that you're making

you are now rationalizing the decision because it is not a fact that you only have one shot.

So there's, if I don't get this house, I'm never going to get a house.

If I don't buy this car, I'm never going to get a car.

God only put one person on the entire planet for me to marry, and if I miss that one,

I'm going to not be married.

Bull crap, okay?

Just bad thinking skills.

So, any time that you allow anxiety, the stress and strain of life, the tragedies of life,

the fact you've been fighting cancer or anything else to narrow you down to one singular decision, Rachel's point, it was that you're

going to make a bad decision.

Yeah, yeah.

Yeah.

And we find that a lot with people because, you know, because money is a tool, you know, in your

life that you're using.

And when life is hard or life feels out of control or life feels like I'm gosh this one thing then you use

that tool money to go and try to get the control back and try to get that control back yeah and so

there is a there is a patience to slow down and to say let me gather some more options option A

B and C and out of that then you can start making okay. Maybe the

answer still is A for whatever your situation is, but at least you've researched and you've

thought and you've taken time to look at B and C. Because, man, we just, because I don't know,

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