I'm Accidentally Involved In A Cheating Scandal—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 243
Dear Shandy
Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
4.9 • 4K Ratings
🗓️ 24 August 2023
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Kelly. Kelly's cousin's choices in her relationship have had a ripple effect in their shared friend circle and Kelly has wound up more involved than she ever intended to be or would have liked. When is someone else's infidelity your information to share, and in Kelly's case, should she have done anything differently? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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| 0:00.0 | I have a strict policy. If a friend of mine kills somebody, I don't want to hear about it. |
| 0:08.1 | Dear Shandy. |
| 0:12.5 | Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners. Hello, Andy. |
| 0:15.8 | Hello. How are you today? Doing good? Doing good. |
| 0:18.4 | Caller time. Yeah. Color time. That's what it should be called. |
| 0:22.6 | Caller Time, not Caller Day. That's right. Yeah. We're joined today for color time by a lovely |
| 0:28.6 | caller named Kelly. Kelly, thank you so much for joining us. Hi, thanks for having me. |
| 0:33.8 | Do you mind giving us your age, the ages of anyone in question, and your city or region, whatever you're comfortable sharing, and your story, please? |
| 0:43.4 | We are all in our like mid to late 30s, and we are located in the San Francisco Bay Area. |
| 0:52.3 | Okay. So it's a really long, complicated story, and I kind of want to break it down to kind of ensure |
| 1:00.5 | that it doesn't get too lost. |
| 1:03.0 | So I'm going to start with just the overarching theme of my question is, am I the asshole? |
| 1:10.0 | All right, well, let's start. What do you think? |
| 1:18.6 | Something about the buildup to that was just fantastic. Okay, yeah, let's hear all the parts. |
| 1:24.3 | Yeah. Okay, so the beginning parts. So it's about my cousin. Her name is Rita. And she |
| 1:31.7 | was cheating on her husband. I actually wrote into you like over half a year ago. So I don't |
| 1:39.0 | know if you guys recall, but I remember and your email was too long. |
| 1:45.2 | Remember you saying reminder to all of you to make it short and I was like, yeah, she's |
| 1:50.0 | talking about me. |
| 1:53.0 | So yeah. |
| 1:54.2 | So when I wrote in, I was very conflicted because I had just found out about her affair. And I wanted you guys' guidance on |
| 2:03.8 | what to do about it, whether I should kind of have her deal with it on her own, let it play out |
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