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I'm a Female Cop 5 Years In — Here's What Nobody Tells You | Kailee Victoria

Locked In with Ian Bick

Ian Bick

Society & Culture

4.8745 Ratings

🗓️ 28 April 2026

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

Kailee Victoria grew up surrounded by cops and followed in their footsteps — but nothing prepared her for the reality of what the job actually looks like from the inside. In this episode of Locked In with Ian Bick, Kailee opens up about her first five years on the force, what it's really like being a female officer in a male dominated profession, and the moments that changed her perspective on policing forever. She breaks down the toughest calls she's faced, the emotional and mental toll of the job, and the truth about police culture that nobody talks about publicly. _____________________________________________ #PoliceOfficer #FemaleCop #RookieCop #LawEnforcement #CopLife #PoliceStories #TrueCrime #lockedinpodcast _____________________________________________ Thank you to PRIZEPICKS for sponsoring this episode: Download the PrizePicks app today and use code IANBICK to get $50 in lineups after you play your first $5 lineup! _____________________________________________ Connect with Kailee Victoria: https://www.instagram.com/xo_kailee?igsh=MTU1ZnlxdThiYm14cQ== _____________________________________________ Hosted, Executive Produced & Edited By Ian Bick: https://www.instagram.com/ian_bick/?hl=en https://ianbick.com/ _____________________________________________ Shop Locked In Merch: http://www.ianbick.com/shop _____________________________________________ Timestamps: 00:00 Inside a Cop’s Toughest Calls (Full Story) 02:00 Kaylee’s Upbringing & Family Background 04:00 Why She Became a Police Officer 07:00 Policing Culture vs Positivity 10:00 Life as a Rookie Cop 14:00 Challenges of Being a Female Officer 17:00 Police Training & Proving Herself 22:00 Career Growth & Lessons Learned 27:00 Social Media & Policing Reality 33:00 Viral Moments & Police Brotherhood 39:00 Trauma, Stress & Mental Health in Policing 44:00 Best & Worst Days as a Cop 47:00 Officer Wellness & Department Culture 51:00 Most Common Calls: Domestic Violence & Danger 56:00 Guns, Safety & Risks on the Job 01:00:00 Lessons from Law Enforcement & Why She Stayed _____________________________________________ To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/LockedInWithIanBicka Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

This lady called, she was a neighbor. I haven't heard from my neighbor in two weeks. She's elderly. She has no family. As soon as I step out of the car and like the smell, I almost threw up. We kicked the door and shot herself in the head with a revolver and she was 75. It was bad. She was there for two weeks. It still like gives me chills to this day. My name is Kaylee Victoria Fesock and I've been a certified law enforcement officer in the state of Florida for four and a half years.

0:23.4

Kaylee Victoria talks about becoming a police officer following in her family's footsteps, her first five years on the job, and what policing is really like day to day.

0:37.3

So I grew up in Baltimore, Maryland, and I went to school in Bel Air, Maryland. Okay. Until I was 18. I didn't even know there was a Bel Air. Bel Air. And it's boogie. It's boogie. So it was boozy for sure. What was your upbringing like? My upbringing was interesting. So my dad was in the military. So he was always away a lot. My dad was deployed in Iraq and Afghanistan. I come from five generations of police. So my dad actually was a cop in DC Metro. So my dad was always away. And then my parents are split up. It was hard for me. They split up when I was one and then got back together when I was 10 and had my brother.

1:11.6

I have a 16-year-old brother, so very close with my mom. My dad and I are cool. We love getting

1:16.5

sushi together, but like if shit goes bad, I'm calling my mom. That's my girl. So do you feel like

1:21.1

you were always meant to become a cop? Was that like the destiny in the pipeline?

1:26.5

Yes, but I love what I do, but I didn't realize how negative things can be sometimes in policing, especially as a female.

1:35.0

Like, there's only 12% of women in policing, and I'm such a positive person.

1:39.0

And, you know, as a cop, you're around so much negativity.

1:41.7

Like, you know, you have the people that have been on for 30 years and they're like miserable every day and like, I'm proactive. I'm not going to sit under a tree.

1:47.5

So I would piss off the guys that have like 30 years on because I'm out there like pulling people over and, you know, just being out there, like calling out on the radio, like stopping out of businesses. Like, I love talking to people.

1:56.5

That's why I became a cop.

1:57.5

And most cops are not like me.

1:58.7

I'm very, like, bubbly and all going.

2:00.7

So, like, it's kind of weird, I guess.

2:02.6

So, like, I'll pull you over and I'll smile.

2:04.1

So, I don a cop. And most cops are not like me. I'm very like bubbly and all going. So like

2:01.2

it's kind of weird, I guess. Like I'll pull you over and I'll smile. So I don't know. It's weird. So but that's how it should be. You shouldn't be like every time I've been pulled over by a state trooper. Yeah. Um, serious face like scary. Do they all look like Mr. Potato Head? Is that like, Like, is that just me or like, dude?

2:17.0

I got a ticket from one.

2:18.3

Like, literally, a year before I became a cop.

2:20.8

No.

2:21.3

Yeah, yeah, in Orlando. He was so mean. He was so mean. Like, I'm like, dude, I was going 10 over. You actually are committed murder. I'm telling you. Matt and I, when we were going to interview the Hells Angels old president in California, Yeah. It was last September and we're driving. We get pulled over, but we didn't know on California highways if you go the left or the right because they have both like gaps, both shoulders on each side. So we're like swerving back and forth and he keeps blaring his sirens at us. But the guy was a dick. Like he was not nice. He was just so rude. There's a lot of that in policing.

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