Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Sating and Confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today I want to talk to you

about a thought that I hear really, really frequently from clients, from women who do the free 15-minute

sessions, from messages, it's all over the world, and that thought is, I like him so much

and I'm so scared of messing it up.

Before we get into that, I want to let you know about my free guide called copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away or acting flaky.

The link for that guide is in the show notes.

I also wanted to share with you that this is the last podcast reminder before our next group coaching program is starting. So that's starting November 2nd.

If it's been on your mind, if you have been interested in learning more about working together

to create the results that you want in dating, then this is your opportunity to schedule a

consult and learn more about the program before we get started.

So the link for that is also going to be in the show notes. One more thing, if you're interested

in doing a free 15-minute laser coaching session with me, there is a link for that in the bio of my

Instagram page, which is just my first and last name, Amber

Rubinman. And that's just where you get to ask me any question about dating and confidence,

and I give you coaching on the spot. So why would you not do that? Okay, so let's talk about this thought, which comes up for so many women

and is supernatural when you meet somebody that you're excited about. And the thought is I like him so

much and I'm so scared of messing it up. And we've all been there. I mean, when you get excited

about somebody, when you really have skin in the game, then of course, we start to feel like

we're walking on eggshells. We start to feel like we need to do and say the right thing.

And we start to get nervous so our true,

playful, fun personality is not really shining out as much anymore. Then we get worried about

that and we wonder how to get it back. And there's a lot of constraint and restriction and

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