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Seeing Other People

"I Finally Got Over Him...By Getting Under Someone Else"

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 22 August 2024

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

I’m joined by a 30-year-old who opens up about the pain she went through when she and the person she thought she was meant to be with learned they had different plans for their futures. She shares advice for long distance relationships along with what she’s learned about getting through heartbreak over the past year. Plus, we hear about how she crushes the IRL dating game and she gives us hot tips for approaching people in the wild.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation.

0:04.8

Hey guys, it's Alana and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered.

0:09.9

It's Thursday, so that means real-life daters are coming on to share their real, sometimes shocking, and always unfiltered experiences.

0:17.8

Think you're alone out there?

0:19.0

Think you're the only one whose ex hooked up with your mom or whose last

0:22.3

date ended up being a catfish? Think again. All right. Can you please introduce yourself and share what

0:28.3

you're here to talk about? Hello, my name is Anonymous and I am here to talk about my dating life in

0:35.0

New York City and kind of the transition from being in a five-year

0:38.6

relationship to now being single in a brand new city.

0:42.4

And how old are you?

0:43.9

I am 30 years old.

0:45.7

And at what point did you transition out of this five-year relationship into new

0:50.9

singlehood, new world?

0:52.7

Let's see.

0:53.5

So it had to have been September of 2023 and we had

1:01.2

been dating for five years. So it was a long relationship. And we were doing long distance by the

1:08.3

time that we broke up. So September 2023, not even a full year ago coming up on a year. How does that feel coming up on a year? It's a little bit weird. I don't know. I don't even know what the timeline feels like it's been. Like, I don't know if that feels like it's been a long time since the breakup or I don't know if it feels like the breakup is flown by. Right.

1:27.8

I think probably the latter of the two.

1:31.3

Well, I don't even know.

1:32.5

Each day is just a new day.

1:33.9

Like, I don't even know the concept of time anymore.

1:35.9

If September, 2023, you could see you now.

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