It's Friday and this is the Ramsey Call of the Day.

Part of the Ramsey Network.

All right, today's question comes from Lindsay and Georgia.

This is a big one.

I cannot wait to hear it.

I'm the sole earner, mama three and three stepkids.

My income ranges from $100,000 to $200,000 and we've paid off $200,000 of our initial $380,000 of debt in the past three years.

Amazing.

My husband is a stay-at-home dad due to COVID and thinks that we should be spending more money despite getting $200 a week.

I pay his child support and his tuition.

He is a good roommate, but a terrible husband.

He has withheld all affection in the past years and prioritizes Netflix over me.

I can withhold spending money until he agrees to work on our marriage?

We had counseling, but he would not follow up.

I'm so exhausted, lonely, and depressed.

I resent feeling I am good enough to work 60 hours a week to support him, but not good

enough to be loved.

Oh, man.

There's a lot there.

That's about a year's worth to work here.

So to answer, there's one question in here, which is, can I withhold spending money until he agrees to work on our marriage?

The answer is no.

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