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I'm 11. Amber, welcome to the program.

Yes. Hi Dr. Boyle. Thank you for taking my call.

Okay. I've a bit of a problem. Well, I guess really how to deal with it. I, my now and I've been working together for 10 months.

He completely why betrayed everything you could ever proceed about. Cut cut cut cut it out cut it out cut it out stop right now.

Don't paint yourself as this unbearably stupid. Okay.

You accepted every step of the way. So please don't portray yourself as this stupid don't. And when you're just jumping all over some guy that's all you're doing.

So how old were you and how old were he when you met.

All right. I'm 45 years 55 out of our relationship. I have now a beautiful week and a half year old.

The problem is that he has been trying to you were having sex unprotected with a guy with whom you did not have a marriage.

So you took a risk of getting pregnant and bringing a third party into the relationship. You took that risk. You did because life new life takes place in your body.

So we can't blame him for anything because he could have had sex with you all day all night for 12 days straight in a row.

But if you were protected because you were responsible you would not have gotten pregnant. So the baby is a direct response to you are being irresponsible.

He didn't have sex with you to become a father. He had sex with you to have a good time with you.

Unfortunately, yeah, it's what it was. Yeah, it probably not.

Unfortunately, you weren't married to him. He was just having sex with you. He didn't know you for years and years and years.

This was exciting and you had sex. So now as an old woman and with him an old man, we have a baby in the middle.

We didn't find a younger couple committed stable to adopt. So now without complaining about anybody, tell me how I can help.

I don't regret the child at all. I regret at 45 with a 60 something year old guy.

You had a baby out of wedlock at your ages with no dad there with a committed family of a marriage.

I regret you did that to a child. I can understand your love for the baby that you personally don't regret having the baby.

But this is not the best circumstance for the baby.

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