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The Ramsey Show Highlights

I Don't Like The Way My 18-Year-Old Spends Money

The Ramsey Show Highlights

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Business, Education, Investing, Self-improvement

4.5839 Ratings

🗓️ 9 May 2026

⏱️ 9 minutes

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0:00.0

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0:06.6

This is my 18-year-old son, Luke.

0:08.7

He'll be graduating high school in just about six weeks.

0:11.6

All right, Luke.

0:12.9

Yeah.

0:17.5

And my question is, as a parent, how do you steward your growing children well without micromanaging

0:25.4

their disposable income? And just a tiny bit of context, we are huge Ramsey fans. Luke has been working

0:32.4

since he was 14. And our rule from Paycheck 1 was you save 50%, you can spend 40%, and you give 10%.

0:41.1

So he has a lot of disposable income, and I feel like he makes purchases that from my perspective

0:47.3

are excessive, and yet I don't want to micromanage him as his mom.

0:52.4

Yeah.

0:52.9

Well, you kind of sort of answered your question in that last

0:55.8

statement. You are a mature, successful adult who happens to be his mom. He is an 18-year-old boy with,

1:05.4

God bless you, your frontal lobe is still developing. Yeah. And he appreciates that. So I think that from my perspective is the part where you're going to have to release a little bit.

1:15.5

Now, I'm going to tell you how I've got three.

1:18.0

I've got a 20-year-old in college in Chicago who literally can't keep money in his account

1:23.8

longer than 17 seconds.

1:26.0

Nice.

1:27.4

And then I've got a middle son who has three grand in his account longer than 17 seconds. Yikes. And then I've got a middle son who has three grand in his account and won't spend it on

1:33.2

anything.

1:34.8

And then I have a daughter who's 17, who's just like the 20 year old.

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