Admitting I Needed Help (with Havilah Cunningham)

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 23 January 2024

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Today I have an on air session with Havilah Cunnington. Havilah and I talk through the crisis that happens when people of faith go through a significant mental illness! Having come from a church background where mental illness was denied or simply seen as an attack from the enemy — the solutions that were given to her were to pray more and confess more. But what happens when those solutions don’t work? What happens when you are plagued by depression and anxiety? In this one-air counseling session we talk through the details of the darkest season she walked through in her life… And how she got out the other side. We affirm the importance of Jesus plus therapy and medication as needed. Listen to this powerful session with Havilah, and as you do, ask yourself where you might need to take next steps in your own healing journey. Tune in now! Additional Ways To Listen: iHEART RADIO Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She’s also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:33.5	What don't you say that we are imprisoned by our judgments of others.
0:39.5	And so when we need help, we tend to not get help because we have judged others for getting help,
0:45.4	or we have judged the method in which they got help.
0:48.8	And so now we're imprisoned.
0:50.3	I think I see a lot of people, especially in ministry, leadership, or even in age, where this was a very, like, taboo idea.
0:57.4	And now they're in prison.
0:58.7	We really needed it.
1:05.1	Are you ready to talk to me?
1:07.4	My name is Deborah Felata and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker,
1:12.5	and author. Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people
1:18.0	get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. The purpose of this podcast is to have
1:25.0	on-air, authentic, counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people
1:30.5	are really doing and give my guests and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed
1:36.5	professional counselor.
1:38.4	Each of these episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing,
1:43.8	mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and
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