I, a 35-year-old man, am very unattractive and have made peace with being alone.

My friends, though, won't give up on trying to set me up with someone.

What do I do?

The original post for this one came on July the 25th, 2022.

Hey everybody.

I'm hoping to get some advice on my current predicament between myself and my friends, Sam and Sarah.

You see, I am very unattractive.

I don't mean that as a put down on myself, but an objective fact about my appearance.

I have a very naturally unappealing face with several body scars that make me difficult to look at for some people.

I've had most of these scars most of my life and of course I was born with my face, so I've never been much to look at for some people. I've had most of these scars most of my life and of course I was

born with my face so I've never been much to look at. I've tried to compensate in other aspects of

life. I have a decent job, I'm tall and I'm in very good shape. I go to the gym and I eat well.

Sadly this is far from enough to make up for how I look. I've had very few relationships and only one sexual partner, though I prefer it had never

happened after the fact.

Though I certainly tried.

I put myself out there for years and was rejected by dozens of women before meeting

one that I thought would be able to look past my appearance.

I lost my virginity to her and everything,

but after a month, she came to my place crying

and saying though she found me attractive as a person,

she couldn't get over my appearance

and had felt terrible.

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