My entitled husband went behind my back and spent over $160,000 investing our money in baseball cards.

And now that the truth has come out, I'm in the process of trying to get my money back that he spent on these cards and as a result he is

absolutely losing his mind on me saying that I have no right to try and get my money

back and that if I keep trying to do this he's going to divorce divorce me, sell our house, and dissolve our business.

And at this point, based on the way he's acting, I seriously am at a crossroads and I now don't

know what to do.

Here's what happened.

So my husband spent $160,000 investing in baseball cards without telling me.

During the same time, he would get mad at me for spending money on meal plans or salon services,

and I would get yelled at for my disrespectful spending and my

financial goals not aligning with his or at least so he'd say and he did most of

this spending on his personal credit card that he paid for with our joint bank account.

For a long time I didn't have access to our online banking, so I didn't see the amounts he was paying

in his credit card.

But whenever I would question a $2 payment or a $4,000 payment, he would always have some kind of excuse, and usually say it was for the family or from the grocery store.

And he would also refuse to show me any of his statements.

Well, one day driving to lunch,

he mentioned how my friends owed him for the concert tickets

that I had used his card to buy.

And so I agreed to get the money from them.

In mentioning the card, though, I remember just seeing another $4,000 payment come out of our

joint bank account.

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