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Life Changing

Hurting the one you love

Life Changing

BBC

Personal Journals, Society & Culture

4.6735 Ratings

🗓️ 22 November 2023

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Growing up in Newport with his mum and younger brother, Connor Allen struggled with his identity as a mixed race kid. He bottled up his feelings and as the anger and frustration built up, couldn’t find the words to express his emotions. When his rage erupts into violence against his Mum, she ends up doing the unthinkable and calling the police. Connor is left facing a prison sentence, his future at a crossroads.

This episode was recorded in front of a live audience at the Hay Festival in May 2023.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Before you listen to this BBC podcast, I want to tell you why I love podcasting.

0:04.7

Hi, my name's Tommy Dixon, and I make podcasts for the BBC.

0:08.4

I'm a big fan of stories, always loved a good book.

0:11.4

But when I started commuting for my first job, I discovered podcasts.

0:15.4

I was blown away by how a creative idea and the right mixture of sounds could take you into

0:19.2

a whole new world full of incredible stories. You know, the type that make you go, wow. And that kind of inspired me to

0:25.2

give it a go myself, which to cut a long story short led to a BBC training scheme and a whole

0:30.0

new career giving other people that exact same feeling. So if you want to hear amazing stories

0:34.2

that make you go wow like I did, they're just a tap or click away on BBC Sounds.

0:40.8

BBC Sounds Music, radio podcasts. Hello and welcome to a special edition of Life Changing

0:47.9

that we're recording in front of a live, small, but perfectly formed audience here at the Hay Festival. It's a beautiful morning and I'm

0:56.2

very glad you're here so give yourselves a round of applause. Now for those of you not

1:07.2

familiar with life changing it's a place where we talk to people who have lived

1:11.0

through transformative moments that mean life will never be quite the same again. Today, it's

1:17.0

all about the power of words. Language give shape to our thoughts, but sometimes it's quite

1:23.2

hard to know what to say. And that was certainly the case for Connor Allen, who lost his way

1:29.0

and found his voice. Let's welcome him. Connor. Now, we normally do these interviews in the intimacy

1:42.6

of a BBC studio, blissfully unaware of anyone listening in.

1:47.1

So it's quite terrifying.

1:48.2

See the whites of your eyes, hey, audience today.

1:50.8

There will be an opportunity at the end to put your questions to Connor.

1:54.6

For those of you listening at home, you'll be able to hear that in a longer version of the program on our podcast on BBC Sounds. But Connett's so good

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