#HURDLEMOMENT: How To Combat Negative Self-Talk
Hurdle with Emily Abbate
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4.9 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 31 March 2021
⏱️ 27 minutes
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You can't do this. You're not good enough. This isn't for you. We've all had negative thoughts, but when was the last time you took ownership over them? Today I'm chatting with Dr. Amy Cirbus Ph.D, LMHC, LPC, Director of Clinical Content at Talkspace all about this. Why do we have negative self-talk, who is more prone to it, and how can we better deal with the effects of it — flipping the script and adopting a more positive mindset.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey everyone, Emily Abadi here. |
| 0:16.1 | You are listening to another installment of Hurtle Moment from Hurtle. |
| 0:20.6 | This week for the show, I wanted to talk about something that I have been having many |
| 0:25.0 | conversations about lately, both with my friends and, of course, over-direct message with |
| 0:30.6 | many of you. |
| 0:31.6 | And that is negative self-talk. |
| 0:34.8 | To do that, I wanted to bring in an expert and that expert is Dr. Amy Service. |
| 0:41.9 | She is a New York licensed mental health counselor as well as a New Jersey licensed |
| 0:45.8 | professional counselor and also the director of clinical content at Talk Space. |
| 0:52.2 | For our conversation today, we unpack everything from what is negative self-talk, what can |
| 0:57.5 | cause negative self-talk, if there are some individuals that are more prone to it than |
| 1:02.9 | others, as well as, and I never heard of this before, the different types of negative |
| 1:07.5 | self-talk. |
| 1:08.8 | Of course, really important how to negate it, how to manage it, how to deal with it, |
| 1:14.5 | and strategies that you can use regularly to help foster a more positive inner dialogue. |
| 1:21.4 | I certainly struggle with negative self-talk, like many of you. |
| 1:25.6 | I think it's important to be open and honest about that. |
| 1:28.9 | Specifically, one of the different types of negative talk that Dr. Service talks about |
| 1:33.1 | in today's episode is called Filtering. |
| 1:36.5 | Being guilty of you could have an amazing day, everything could be great, you're healthy, |
| 1:41.9 | you feel good, but one bad thing could happen. |
| 1:44.9 | One negative comment could come through, and that's the thing you focus on. |
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