There's almost never an actual situation where I know everything somebody else is talking about.

But beyond that, it's the lack of humility and the lack of curiosity and open-mindedness that

keeps you closed.

I mean, just think about the act of doing that, right?

I already know, I don't need to listen.

I'm better than it sort of does this to the world, right?

Kind of stiff arms the world.

It says, I'm going to keep you there and I'm going to let in whatever I feel like letting in.

And what you do is you end up alone.

You end up isolated sometimes by our own.

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So here's one of the things that really, really came up for me. On this retreat, we had a lot of people who were first time retreat goers, I would say. But even more than that, we have people for whom it was the first time doing any self-experation. Multiple people, two of them in particular, men who I'm not going to say got dragged into this by their partner, by their female partners.

That wasn't the thing exactly. It was more like they went under the assumption that their partners were going to like this and benefit from it and they were just going to be spectators.

That was kind of the idea. And both of them

told us this on day one, which was really cool. Look, I've never done anything like this in my life.

I have zero expectations. I don't really know. Later on, we found out it was even worse than no

expectations. It was like, okay, I'm going to listen to some woo-woo stuff for three to four days and then I get to go home and just be cool with the fact

that I did what I was supposed to do and nobody can yell at me. But what I got to understand

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