How You Can Date Better to Have Better Sex!

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 8 July 2025

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this grounding episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily explores how to transform your dating experience by focusing on emotional awareness, body intelligence, and clear intentions. Whether you're navigating apps or meeting people in person, this episode offers a heart-centered approach to modern dating that prioritizes authentic connection over performance. We dive into why your dating "type" might be blocking true connection and how to get out of your head and into your body before dates. Emily shares the power of pre-date rituals and intention setting, explaining why chasing chemistry often leads us astray and how to spot green flags instead of just red ones. This conversation includes practical tips for identifying emotional safety and alignment early on, plus guidance on when to stay curious and when to walk away. Emily offers tools for cultivating real confidence that comes from within, not from external validation, and shares how to maintain your sense of self while remaining open to connection. From setting boundaries to trusting your intuition, this episode is packed with wisdom for anyone who wants to date with more intention, less anxiety, and greater self-trust Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction 2:43 The Roommate Problem 4:47 Why Date Nights Matter 6:02 The 5 Arousal Types Explained 9:21 Conversation-Based Dates 12:00 Sensory Dates 17:04 Playful Dates 22:36 Physical Adventure Dates 24:53 How to Introduce Massage Into Your Relationship 29:25 Rebuilding Intimacy After Having a Baby

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0:00.0	You know I've always said that pleasure is wellness. Well, now science backs me up. Magic One just
0:06.3	released the results of a groundbreaking study, the first of its kind, measuring what happens to your mind
0:11.4	and body when you use a vibrator every day for a week. And here's what they found. Stress levels dropped,
0:17.7	sleep got better, connection increased with themselves and with partners,
0:22.2	body confidence skyrocketed, and overall happiness, it was up big time. And here's the kicker.
0:28.4	The week with no sexual activity at all, participants across the board reported worse scores
0:33.8	in every category, from mood to body image, just seven days without pleasure made a measurable
0:38.7	difference. But once they introduced the magic wand, everything shifted. So if you needed a reason
0:44.8	to prioritize your pleasure, this is it. The magic wand isn't just iconic. Research shows it makes
0:50.9	you feel better. Results are live and go check them out today at magic wand study.com.
0:55.3	And get your magic wand today to join the pleasure revolution.
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1:04.1	All these little things that you try, they might feel a little bit uncomfortable because
1:08.3	they are new and you've never done it before.
1:10.2	But those are the ingredients that are really important for your arousal. feel a little bit uncomfortable because they are new and you've never done it before, but those
1:11.1	are the ingredients that are really important for your arousal and for your attraction.
1:16.4	You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize your
1:20.8	pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex. Are you stuck in a dating rut?
1:27.2	Going to the same restaurant, watching the same
1:30.1	movies, falling into the same routine that ends with you falling asleep instead of getting it on?
1:35.1	Well, today we're breaking that cycle. I'm sharing creative date ideas designed around your
1:39.9	specific arousal style, whether you get turned on through conversation, touch, visuals, play,
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