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Hey guys, welcome back to be metadachni. Very excited for today's episode with David and Jake.

They are awesome. They had me on their podcast, so you should check out that episode too.

And they're just like two great 25 year old dudes who have a lot of really interesting

perspectives. Definitely felt challenged on a lot of theirs. So I'm excited for you to listen

and see if you, you know, who you agree with on that and who side you take. And before we get

into that, I just want to answer a few of your questions that you had written in about what I

should talk about on this week's solo. So the first one is, do we all experience trauma?

I think yes, absolutely. I think especially as women, like I have experienced, you know,

questionable like sexual relations before, where I was like, hmm, like was I too drunk? Was that

uncomfortable? Like that kind of trauma, you know, and then we all have experienced

some family trauma of some sort. It's like, I don't care what you say. Even if it's like your sister

took your stuffed animal when you were younger, it's still trauma if it affected you in some way.

And so I definitely do think that we've all experienced trauma, you know, whether it's mommy issues

or daddy issues or sibling issues or cousin issues, like there's always something no one's life

is perfect. So even if that trauma is something that might not be a big deal to someone else,

yeah, we've all, you know, we've all been there and had an experience of something that, you know,

made us feel uncomfortable or that we will remember going forward. And that's another

reason why I think therapy is so important. And it's also so important to talk about your trauma

with your partner. Like if you feel comfortable doing that because maybe they'll share something

with you and it'll bring you closer. Someone wanted me to talk about tips for second dates,

such an underrated important part of dating with limited resources, guidelines out there.

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