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Hard Knox with Amanda Knox

How Trauma Rewires Desire (Katie Simon)

Hard Knox with Amanda Knox

Knox Robinson Productions

True Crime, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2025

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Katie Simon’s latest book, Tell Me What You Like: An Honest Discussion of Sex and Intimacy After Sexual Assault, explores how survivors chart diverse paths to healing. In this episode, she reveals how she walked away from a life that looks perfect from the outside, why listening to your body can be the most radical act of self-preservation and how intimacy after trauma asks for patience, honesty, and courage. Tell Me What You Like: An Honest Discussion of Sex and Intimacy After Sexual Assault: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Tell-What-You-Like-Discussion/dp/0806542764⁠ Reach out to us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.amandaknox.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ X: @amandaknox IG: @amamaknox Bluesky: @⁠⁠amandaknox.com⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free: My Search for Meaning⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Waking Up Meditation App ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.wakingup.com/Amandaknox⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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1:10.1

I'm Amanda Knox, and you're listening to Hard Knox.

1:18.2

On today's podcast, I speak with Katie Simon, author of Tell Me What You Like, an honest discussion of sex and intimacy after sexual

1:29.2

assault. So, trigger warning, this is a conversation about both sexual assault, but also intimacy

1:37.5

and conversations about relationships and sex post-assault. We do not go into detail on the horrible traumas.

1:47.6

I think this is more of a conversation about, well, first of all, we spend a lot of time

1:53.4

even just dissecting the etymology of victim versus survivor language

1:57.7

and how language is important for how we identify both personally and

2:02.5

communally with traumatic things that happen. We talk about, you know, my conversation with Dan

2:10.5

and how sex is a story that we get to tell about ourselves for ourselves. We talk about, gosh, we also talk about

2:20.9

how the kink world has really done wonders for really starting a conversation in our broader

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